random thoughts

I love to buy things. I buy things I can’t afford and most of all I buy things I don’t really need. Seems to be a hobby of mine. Fashion is something I have always enjoyed. I realize it isn’t that important at the end of the day. How you look isn’t everything, but there isn’t anything wrong with looking good.

I am a believer that you don’t have to spend a bunch of money to look good. How many times do you hear that? It’s true though. I grew up with very little money. We often wore second hand clothes, but what we did have we kept nice. It takes a certain attitude to dress nice even when you don’t have the money.

I hate seeing people go out in public looking sloppy and unkempt. It’s not that I think I am better than they are. I’m not. I simply choose to not go out without looking presentable. You don’t have to wear a suit or a tie just to go out. You can look great in a t-shirt and jeans. Throw on a nice pair of shoes and your good to go. Run a comb through your hair, or whatever you do to fix it decently. Going out in pjs or a dumpy sweater and sweatpants? No, just no. It may be comfortable, but it’s not attractive.

Clothes that don’t fit? Nobody wants to see your crack or your rolls. Seriously. If you are big you can dress for your size. It’s not hard. Stop stuffing yourself in your clothes. You look like a busted can of biscuits.

Anyway, thats enough for now. I don’t know what this blog will ultimately be about, but I get the feeling it will be rather random. I’m sorry if that’s not your cup of tea.

If anyone does read this blog. I invite you to leave a comment letting me know your opinion.


keep surviving…


Trying something new…

I have decided to start a blog. Why? I need an outlet. I have many thoughts in my head I need to get out.

I can’t say whether anyone will even read this blog or find it interesting. That’s not my main goal anyway. What I want is to find answers by writing. Perhaps, I will learn something about myself or understand myself better. If by chance anyone does read this blog, then maybe I can learn something from an outside perspective.

Life is never easy, and it would seem that I, like most people, can’t seem to ask for help. How can I ask for help when I don’t know what I need help with? Hopefully I find out.

Keep surviving.